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i want to be in a relationship so bad but at the same time i’m avoidant and picky 😔 i dont know how to fix this help
194 upvotes, 14 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "i want to be in a relationship so bad but at the same time i’m avoidant and picky 😔 i dont know how to fix this help"
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Anonymous 1w

it’s okay to be picky! working on myself without worrying about relationships has actually started to attract healthy people. specifically, discovering and embodying your inner self! and owning who you are unapologetically. it’ll also help clarify what you’re really looking for in a relationship

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Anonymous 1w

Literally same

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Anonymous 1w

Define picky

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Anonymous 1w

Date you reels for 6 months

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Anonymous 1w
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Anonymous 1w

imma be honest don't seek relationships until you can fix the avoidant part. you'll end up hurting people if you do

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Anonymous 1w

Stop being so picky, being picky leads to being alone at 60

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

the way they act, their humor, the way they type, how they act in certain situations uhhh and sometimes looks 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Wdym by the way they act?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

just in general (like at restaurants, how they are with their friends etc.)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Like politeness?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

not sure why ur getting downvoted…what u said is facts

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I know I’m like y’all can’t take the truth? 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

if you can’t pull and have bad options just say that

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