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Why does my girlfriend not say I love you as much anymore? I’m not sure if her cycle has anything to do with it but she’s been super irregular with her cycle lately, stressing that she’s pregnant too
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Anonymous 6d

Imagine you were stressed because your boss started talking about the value of AI and how it can do so many tasks, including yours. You’re all stressed that you might lose your entire career (life-changing), and your girlfriend comes over to ask you something. Which would sound more loving to you:

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Anonymous 6d

As someone else commented, you should probably *use protection* so that she won’t be stressed all the time. She’s stressed about a hugely life-changing event (pregnancy). You’re worried about not getting as much attention. The two are not the same.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Look at it from her perspective. She’s dating a guy who sees her get all stressed about a very real concern, and his guess as to why is “maybe it’s her cycle”, and his concern is “why isn’t she telling me she loves me all the time?” Do you think that your priorities make HER feel loved?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

A. Why haven’t you been saying “I love you” as much as you used to?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

B. I see that you’re stressed. What can I do to help?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

This is the only answer needed and I’m upset it doesn’t have more upvotes

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