Anonymous #2 14w

what? it did. she has her own problems like the rest of us and i love her i just want advice on how to navigate that

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Anonymous OP 14w

unless you’ve cheated before, that’s obviously not rational so none of us can explain her behavior to you. why don’t you ask her yourself

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Anonymous #2 14w

i have not cheated- i'm her first boyfriend but she isn't my first girlfriend. the first never affected her, i don't bring her up, she just is very hurt that i had been with someone else. which also, i completely understand. but i do love this girl i just don't want to give up something important to me

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Anonymous OP 14w

ok well we as outsiders to this relationship can’t explain why she thinks you will cheat so you need to communicate with her about that

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Anonymous #2 14w

i've tried. i am just asking for that outside perspective so that i can understand where i'm wrong in a way she hasn't explained. why are you so bitter at something that's pretty healthy??

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Anonymous OP 14w

based on the context you’ve given which is that you do everything she wants and she doesn’t want you to go to concerts because she thinks you’ll cheat for no reason, you haven’t done anything wrong

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Anonymous OP 14w

you’re asking us to explain her perspective but we can only see the situation from your perspective through the details you provide. so idk how we will provide any new insights

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Anonymous #2 14w

What's with your attitude dude

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Anonymous #2 14w

If you have no helpful input why even comment? To be an ass?

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Anonymous #4 14w

maybe this doesn’t apply to OP in which case i apologize. but i’m kind of tired of people coming here asking for advice in bad faith. like this post just reads like ‘i’m a perfect bf and my gf is being obviously crazy, why is she being crazy?’ either she is being irrational which you already know or you are withholding some details that would explain the behavior

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what assumptions? the post literally says i do everything for her, why does she say i’m going to cheat at concerts? like genuinely how are we supposed to explain why she says that

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Anonymous #2 14w

also only my first comment was uncalled for so sorry about that, but everything i said after was real advice. we literally cannot explain this based on the context we have do you need to communicate with her about why she doesn’t trust you. that’s pretty much what 3 said too. if you don’t like my bluntness then okay but i wasn’t being an ass for the rest of it

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