I have to get myself off with external stimulation. It’s just how my body is but if penetration is uncomfortable to the point of not being able to get yourself off it might not be a bad idea to try more lubrication or even talking to a gyno about it. Good luck ❤️ and just remember that whatever works for you is normal and good!
interesting ! everyone experiences different kinds of stimulation differently, the best general advice i can give is to just do more exploring into finding what works for your body. it can be a really great experience connecting with your body in that way. just focusing more on the pleasure rather than putting pressure on reaching climax