Ask Women on Yik Yak | Do you consider faking orgasms to be lying? Or is it the kind of ‘no big deal’ fibbing that you can morally justify?

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Ask Women 1d

Do you consider faking orgasms to be lying? Or is it the kind of ‘no big deal’ fibbing that you can morally justify?

Anonymous 1d

I mean it IS lying but I don’t think it’s that bad of a lie. Although it would be better to just let your partner know that they need to change up what they’re doing so you can actually feel good

Anonymous 1d

Depends on the situation

Anonymous 17h

it really depends. generally you shouldn’t but if it’s a hook up or a one time thing then whatever live your life. but if you’re regularly lying to your partner then that’s a problem, you’re betraying their trust in a way that shows you don’t trust them either to be able to do better, and you’re sacrificing your own happiness to do so

Anonymous 1d

my boyfriend doesn’t make me orgasm but i don’t really mind it. sex feels good, he finishes, we’re both happy. i don’t find a reason in causing extra stress in the relationship when there truly isn’t a problem

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Anonymous

#3 21h

I am so sorry

Anonymous

#4 16h

like i said i genuinely dont mind

Anonymous

#5 16h

but what if you’re still happy with the situation and don’t feel the need to orgasm every single time?

Anonymous

#3 16h

then you should just tell your partner that. sex isn’t a race to orgasm it’s an intimate activity between lovers. they should still know what you’re looking for in sex and yall should be working together so you both get what you need/want out of the relationship both in and out of the bedroom.

Anonymous

#5 15h

but what i’m saying is im genuinely happy, sex feels good and i enjoy it - im getting what i need and want we have great sex that i truly enjoy and look forward to, so if it’s truly not something i need or am looking for why put that strain on the relationship?

Anonymous

#3 15h

Ok genuine curiosity have you ever been with someone who has made you finish? Or like it genuinely doesn’t bother you?

Anonymous

#4 15h

it genuinely doesn’t bother me i can make myself finish every once and a while and that’s enough for me sex still feels good and i love being intimate with him, i enjoy the sex - i don’t need to finish it’s just not something i feel the need to do

Anonymous

#3 13h

it shouldn’t be a strain for your partner to know sometimes you don’t finish and you don’t mind that

Anonymous

#3 13h

i think it would strain it many men make it feel like they aren’t doing enough or aren’t good enough