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Why is it when I have a great night with a girl like we just vibe really well, the next day if I’m like yo lets grab coffee this week I get way less interest than for the ones where I just snap like everyone else.Y is me acting like Idgaf more attractive
#confused
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Anonymous 2w

chalant is way better than nonchalant my brother, i say keep doin what ur doing

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Anonymous 2w

psychologically speaking, a bit of a chase is more exciting. i’ve seen the same thing with men. the guys who were most obsessed with me were ones i wasn’t all that into or available for. it’s more rewarding to our brains to get someone when it feels like a bit of a challenge

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Anonymous 2w

A bit of mystery is attractive and elicits desire, it’s less the not giving a fuck and more there being some uncertainty and mystery to things

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 2w

I feel like someone who only likes u when you’re playing mind games with them or unavailable for them isn’t someone you’d want to be in a relationship with

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

ive personally never understood the “playing hard to get”. if ur into me, pls act like ur into me or else ill overthink. vice versa.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

oh yeah for sure. not saying that it’s healthy or ideal.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

yeah same mixed signals just make me think it’s not worth the effort

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