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Would you appreciate it if someone you broke up with messaged you a couple months later, apologizing for things that they did while in the relationship? Not like cheating or anything, just like listening better or being less impulsive
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Anonymous 1d

Coming from ppl who have done it to me idc. I’d prob prefer you to not text me at all even if it’s an apology bc we broke up and I’m likely not interested in talking. I mean I’d still take the apology I just wouldn’t care anymore

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Anonymous 1d

I had this happen to me a few weeks ago and it brought back shitty emotions. Please don’t insert yourself back into her life. 🫩

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Anonymous 1d

Don’t do it. If for some reason you ever meet in person again, you can maybe apologize for how things ended, but don’t make it a whole thing. If you must confess your sins, seek a priest. Otherwise just promise yourself that you’ll do better in how you treat friends and partners. I’m willing to bet the issues weren’t just one sided too, but if you apologize don’t expect one back

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Anonymous 21h

Hey, thank you for all of this by the way. I think I was just thinking I wanted to let her know that if people fuck up they can own up to it. Because I just wanted her to have a good idea what a healthy caring relationship looked like.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

I’m not gonna reach out though

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