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My boyfriend of 1 1/2 years just broke up with me. I am still deeply in love with him and hopeful we’ll get back together. Can anyone please give me some advice on how to get through this? I feel physically sick and can’t stop crying.
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Anonymous 1w

I would say from personal experience do not hold on to the hope of getting back together because when you realize you’re not getting back together it’ll hurt even more. Love from a far but don’t keep your hopes too high for your own sake

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Anonymous 1w

Lmk what works for u bc im in the exact same position 😭

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Anonymous 1w

Cry

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Anonymous 1w

Admittedly I have done something similar to a girl….

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Anonymous 1w

Honestly I've never heard of anyone getting broken up with who has absolutely bomb ass head game. That shit really make a dude wanna stay forever. He might think twice if you had that to offer

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Anonymous replying to -> forget_me_not 1w

Is this advice or an insult 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

It’s advice. I made myself a playlist and cried. Honestly gave myself that first month to crash out, look over every picture, analyze every message, beat the dead horse so to speak. Second month I hid all of the pictures we had/moved them so I wasn’t just staring at them when I opened my camera roll 3rd month, got all my stuff from his/gave his stuff back, cried some more. Talked about it in therapy. Brought my notes from month 1

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Anonymous replying to -> forget_me_not 1w

4th month reached out to him about trying to work things out, he asked for no contact, unfollowed his family/him on everything, 5th month rearranged my room so everything was different. Started seeing more friends and going out 6th month still unpacking in therapy, made peace with why we broke up; and the role I had in instigating the break up

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Anonymous replying to -> forget_me_not 1w

Thank you for sharing, I’m definitely still in the first stage. Hopefully I can come to terms soon

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You’ll get there, you got this!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

wtf is wrong with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I was talking to a guy for a couple weeks we hungout almost every night and he broke it off bc I refused to give him head

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

That’s exactly what my bsf said 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I did and he still left me🫠 really crushed the ego I almost wish that was the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Well idk then he was probably gay and it's not your fault

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