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What does it mean if a girl looks me up and down when I approach her?
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Anonymous 1w

She’s looking at you top to bottom to decide if she even wants to entertain you.

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Anonymous 1w

She’s sizing you up and wants to box you.

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Anonymous 1w

“Smash”

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Anonymous 1w

she’s wondering if she wants to be friends or wants to hate you bc you’re prettier than her

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

What’s that mean?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I think Ik what it means, but her face didn’t look turned on at all…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

That makes more sense…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

All I did was ask her if she had an Iphone charger tho. So she was thinking abt if I was attractive to her or not?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

She was thinking about whether you were a psychopath going to kill her, some loser going to ask you out, or someone she met before but doesn’t remember. Attraction might have been the fifth or sixth thing she was thinking about.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

*ask her out

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

She was not thinking about how attractive you were, dude. She’s wondering if it’s even safe to entertain you. You know…because femicide is a genuine concern for the average woman everywhere.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

We were literally in the middle of a room w/ ppl tho

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Her friends were across the room

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Do you want me to say she was attracted to you? I genuinely don’t know what to say People have guns, knives, acid. People are evil, mentally unwell, and delusional. You asked women and I’m telling you as a woman, I am always afraid of a stranger coming up to me, either to hurt me or waste my time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

No. I just don’t see how I pose a threat in a room full of ppl studying. Wdym by “waste ur time”?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Also, I think I’m probably the most none threatening man on Earth. Don’t see how anyone could see me and feel threatened by me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I think you’re being purposefully dense. Wasting my time, for ME personally not the girl you’re asking about, is asking me out because I’m not interested. It also doesn’t matter if you’re non threatening. Ted Bundy was considered attractive, upper middle class and non-threatening. Still a serial killer. What else do you need clarification on?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I feel like he has a serial killer look tho. They tend to have a look 😭, and yes, often are attractive in a sexual kind of way. That’s not me 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Purposefully dense again. Chris Watts was an average man who killed his entire family. Pretty non threatening when he married his wife. I’m confused at your confusion?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I’m confused at ur confusion at my confusion 😭💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I think ya’ll be watching too much true crime

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

True crime terrifies me, I choose to ignore it, but I am informed. I read the news. Women die more and more by the day. How am I supposed to know you’re non threatening? I’m providing a rebuttal and you’ve neither the facts nor even a statement to prove me wrong. Just say you asked us if she was looking at you up and down because you wanted her to be interested in you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Ok maybe, Idk. Is that true abt women? I’m not aware of recent increases in violence against women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

In 2023, violence against women reached an all time high globally. In 2024, it was reported that a woman died every ten minutes. There are at least 200,000 missing women in the US today alone. The increase I am referring to is an increase of violence against women in the past five years and an increase of violence in my area specifically.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Ok. So it’s real. Why the increase? Trying to understand where it’s coming from.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Are you disabled or simply incompetent? Go and research it like the rest of us. What a pretty privilege to be so ignorant

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Not sure what ur area is, but assuming it’s in the US and in a more Republican area, I would guess it has to do w/ increased misogyny (?)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

It doesn’t affect me, so why would I know as much as u?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Same reason I don’t care as much abt abortion. I believe it should be a woman’s choice, but I’m not voting on that issue personally

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You don’t read the news? Gabby Petito? Again, what a pretty privilege to run around so ignorant.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I read the news. Not necessarily those types of stories tho. They seem like clickbait… “Missing Person”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You’re correct that it has to do with increased misogyny, but unfortunately, although it’s driven by the right wing the increase isn’t limited to republican eras. I’d also encourage you to vote more responsibly in the future, as you should in fact, care about other people’s lives and take action to ensure their wellbeing when it’s in your power to do so.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I vote for my own self-interest/the interest of ppl, like everybody does or thinks they’re doing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

*ppl Ik

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yes and the interest of other people in this case is ensuring the right to abortion. Do better in the future.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

If I’ve misinterpreted that and you’re actually just saying that you think everyone just votes out of self interest, you’ve got a really skewed view of the world and I’d encourage you to reevaluate your relationship to empathy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

That’s exactly what I’m saying. U think I’m wrong? Look at the reality we’re living in and tell me I’m wrong. We’re apes w/ more advanced technology & systems of k*llling each other

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

No, not really. If you think everyone is that selfish you’re sorely mistaken. It’s really odd and sad to me that so many people have such a myopic view. Just because YOU choose to vote selfishly doesn’t mean the rest of the world does. All telling yourself otherwise does is let you pretend to yourself that you aren’t making the morally lazy choice. Voting for a woman’s right to her own body takes nothing from you. Like I said, you really should channel some empathy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Trump won 🤷‍♂️. I didn‘t vote for him, but he won, cuz ppl don’t give a f abt others

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