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As a girl, how do you go about talking to men? I’m a virgin, never dated, never kissed anyone and I really want to but I have no clue how to approach people I find attractive
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Anonymous 5w

honestly just go about it like you’re trying to start any kind of connection. go up to someone, compliment them maybe, see if there’s any common ground anywhere. just be yourself

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Anonymous 5w

dude i feel this so hard. i am insanely insecure about my whole being to the point where i don’t even think someone could find me attractive or want to date me. i know im not like ugly it’s more of a mental thing lol. but i’m 21 and i legit can’t talk to guys who are even remotely cute

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Anonymous 5w

It’s okay to also just not be ready yet idk I like being approached better than doing the approaching. Usually I’m just flirty or i’m nice but it doesn’t really work. Men like to approach women I think.

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Anonymous 5w

If a girl came up to me and asked for my number I’d fold in a heartbeat

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Anonymous 5w

i met my bf on tinder. i’m a bit more braver online lmao

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Anonymous 5w

Welcome to a lil snippet of how men feel. Best of luck to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Don’t forget to think about your body language while you’re talking to them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Sorry (no period :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Men do not like to approach women anymore. As I am I am horrified and scared to do it. Women are intimidating and the fear of rejection is so real. However it is what we have to do due to social standards and I would like doing it if it my head wasn’t so bad about it and it worked for me more often than it didn’t (which may or may not be the case, idk because I don’t do it). As a man though I would absolutely love it if a women even just complimented me out of knowhere, let alone ask me out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

99.9% of men surveyed would

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