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Genuine question, wtf do I do if he hasn’t made me cum once in our year and a half relationship? The sex is great but I can only cum if I’m playing with myself. 😭
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Anonymous 3w

you should talk with him and communicate on what can be done to ensure both of you are cumming! If you’re scared of it being awkward just turn it into foreplay and help him understand and learn what gets you off

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Anonymous 3w

I had this same problem. I realized Its all mental. I was trying to focus on the physical sensation and it wouldn’t get very far but if I used my imagination to think about hot things/scenarios while it was happening it helped me get to the finish line

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Anonymous 3w

genuine question how is the sex great then?

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Anonymous 3w

lol i was with my ex for 2 and a half years and never did so don’t ask me

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Anonymous 3w

Does he know?

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Anonymous 3w

Most women don’t orgasm during penile penetration, so just accept the fact that you’re normal, a penis isn’t enough by itself, and ur man is going to have to try harder is he’s that interesting.

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Anonymous 3w

100 relationships vs communication

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Anonymous 3w

You are wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 3w

It feels good and he’s hot as hell 🤷🏼‍♀️idk

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 3w

Dude we have literally talked about it just wanted other peoples opinions

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Yes and no, I have kinda hinted at it but I haven’t told him directly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

It’s not easy but this would be the first step! I had this same problem with my boyfriend, and we would talk about it, and after several months of getting more comfortable and practicing with him more, he was able to it with his hands. Eventually, after another month, he could do it through head. With sex, i will sometimes touch myself while we do it so I can cum, otherwise he’ll have to stimulate me a lot beforehand. It’s a slow process but it works and we are constantly improving!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

It’s just a mental thing. Once the brain gets more used to it and comfortable, and the man learns the technique right, then it’s totally possible

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Thank you so much!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

And it’s been almost 2 years??? This is on you girly if you want a change you have to tell him. Closed mouths don’t get fed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Have you ever came from sex?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

Objection, your honor. Irrelevant. The vast majority of women don’t come during intercourse.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

Definitely is relevant she is talking about intercourse here. If that is the case that she can’t come through intercourse I already stated that she needs to talk to her partner.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

How so?

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