
But meanwhile Andrew Tate is always with women hanging on his arms. My alcoholic, unemployed, drug addict cousin who sleeps on the couch in his mom’s trailer, beats up every girl he’s ever gotten, yet he still has had over 25 different gfs. Meanwhile I’ve never said a harsh word to a girl, always did favors and helped them out, but I have zero.
Just because some nice guys eventually found girls doesn’t mean this still isn’t a thing. The most pos guys I know always have girls clinging to them like monkeys in a banana tree. My aunt literally told me she feels bad for me because I’m a good guy who can’t find anyone, and then told me how she always gravitated towards the “bad boys” even though she knew it was bad for her. My mom said the same. Literally women themselves tell me that this is true.
andrew tate has women hanging on his arm because he is PAYING them. they don’t give a fuck about him, and he doesn’t give a fuck about them except as a status symbol. your cousin has probably dated other addicts who are not good people. the ability to have a girlfriend does NOT mean it is a healthy relationship for either party. instead of using these examples, do you have anyone in your family or friend circle who is in a HEALTHY, long term relationship? what are THEY doing?
Redpill has kernels of truth but it’s mixed in with so much toxicity esp these days. The problem is these ideologies dehumanize women, which will cause problems for you down the line. You can’t have an authentic connection w someone you dehumanize in your mind. Some tricks in the redpill work, like having more confidence, social proof, etc. But don’t be a rube, most of these guys are scam artists. As to your asshole cousin, it’s obviously his confidence that’s working for him
This would be the case if thats ALL andrew tate had, he also has these funny lil things called felonies. Any woman that goes to him has disparaginly low self worth and is fine with being seen/treated as a prostitute. You fail to see that without andrew tates preexisting fame or wealth from other sources, you’d have little to no redeeming personality factors and would inevitably surround yourself with bimbos, the very demographic you claim to despise. Huge L.
I was a shy person who despised taking initiative for most of my life. Redpill/manosphere told me that no woman wants a man who cant take initiative. They convinced me the best way to show I can take initiative is to treat women like i couldnt care less about them and make them meet me on my terms every time without any thought about what want or how they’re feeling. This worked surprisingly well for hookups but had the opposite effect when i tried to pursue real relationships.
If degrading other people man (for looks/physique/finances) or woman (looks, pliability, emotional boundaries) is whats “best for ourselves” as men then we need to go back to the fundamentals of gradeschool and try and reevaluate where some definitions and morals may have gotten misplaced. Other men dont deserve to feel humiliated because they dont fit the standards bald womanizers set, and women deserve better than to have to spoonfeed you the ability to care about anything but yourselves lmao
1. Men are degraded no matter what. Might as well have it in the form of advice or constructive criticism instead of complaining and insults. 2. Treating men like misbehaving children will make them actually grow to hate you. 3. If humiliation drives growth, then it can be valuable. 4. Nobody is forcing women to do that.
Oh no we dont, YOU do, how you treat others and the world around you is exactly what determines your humane value. Its a shame i have to spell this out for you and you cant even think proactively past your own incelbased delusions but oh well not every mother succeeds at raising her son