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women who have had multiple partners– how do you know someone is "the one"? i love my current and first bf so so so much, he's wonderful but i have nothing besides unrequited crushes to compare him to, and i want to ensure i'm thinking clearly
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Anonymous 3w

if you're happy, then that's what counts. just make sure you aren't overlooking things that mar you unhappy because you're attached to the idea that he's "the one."

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Anonymous 3w

You’ll feel when something is off. I’ve dated plenty of men I thought were the one until later down the line I realized they were doing small things that I couldn’t get over. Eventually they became dealbreakers and not what I wanted to see in my future with someone if they didn’t change the habit. I miss the connection but not the person. I know others may have that quality though

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

THIS!!! i dated a boy for a year and a half in high school, ended it in march because i kept pushing off things i liked to do/have my own time bc we didn’t have it in common. i miss him from time to time but i feel so much better now that i am on the path i want

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