
So I'm newly a dad 6months now. My girlfriend decided not to get an abortion, when she asked my I said we were not ready yet (because unmarried and I was not sure about marriage), but I told her I'd be by her side regardless of her decision. She went through with it and now we have a beautiful baby girl. Real talk I did not feel ready at all. Real talk... I'm still terrified but this is the greatest thing to have ever happened to me
You’re so valid for that. I have zero desire to have kids at any point, but I had a miscarriage a few years ago (didn’t know I was even pregnant it was so early on) and I cried for like an hour knowing that could’ve been my baby. I’m also pro choice and would’ve gotten an abortion anyway. It’s a weird feeling