Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
i don’t want kids… but last night i had the most realistic dream that i was pregnant and now i feel like something was taken away from me and i miss it.
upvote 90 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 3w

So I'm newly a dad 6months now. My girlfriend decided not to get an abortion, when she asked my I said we were not ready yet (because unmarried and I was not sure about marriage), but I told her I'd be by her side regardless of her decision. She went through with it and now we have a beautiful baby girl. Real talk I did not feel ready at all. Real talk... I'm still terrified but this is the greatest thing to have ever happened to me

upvote 27 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 3w

You’re so valid for that. I have zero desire to have kids at any point, but I had a miscarriage a few years ago (didn’t know I was even pregnant it was so early on) and I cried for like an hour knowing that could’ve been my baby. I’m also pro choice and would’ve gotten an abortion anyway. It’s a weird feeling

upvote 21 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 3w

canon event fr

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 3w

They don't call it "motherly instinct" for no reason 🤷‍♀️

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

This is so sweet :) good luck on your parenting journey together! The same thing happened to one of my buddies and although they aren’t married yet, he and his gf are some of the best parents I know and my buddy adores his daughter and being a dad.

upvote 9 downvote