leave

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stop paying for things

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If you're not going to leave just stop giving him money and see how he acts. Maybe then that might convince you

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He needs a job and you need a new bf

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Your basically with a homeless man atp

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Tell him you aren’t going to pay for anything of his anymore, that he needs to apply for jobs. If he reacts with any hostility and or doesn’t do it. Leave his ass and change your locks

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I’m broke too and I understand money struggles but that’s just straight up ridiculous.

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Leave tf?

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Dump his ass

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I feel like leaving without a convo is stupid af but it also sounds like youve tried

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leave his bitch ass

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Just stop paying for things, hes an adult and needs to be responsible for himself and get a job instead of leaching off of his girl, times are tough for most rn he has no excuse

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Paid for anything like what

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I’m a guy, but he does not sound likes he’s trying at all. Which will probably be a recurring theme in your relationship and if he didn’t want to actually sit down and communicate about it, it’s time to move on. Hope this helps

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don’t give him spending money unless he does the grocery shopping or whatever, and communicate to him that he needs to prove he is making attempts to get jobs if he wants to continue receiving your support

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Does he do the dishes and the laundry? Because he’s a housewife rn

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communicate that he needs to get a job, if he WONT (because EVERYONE able-bodied CAN) then he is in fact using you and that is reason enough to end the relationship. also to anyone (including your bf) who says it’s too hard to find a job, bullcrap cuz i literally used to work in a warehouse - there are plentyyyy of jobs you’re just only looking at stuff like food service and retail

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