Ask Women on Yik Yak | I grew up hearing about locker room convos and men gcs but I’ve never been on one of those situations. However I’ve been in groups of women who pass nudes around and have those crass convos ab private things. Are yall aware it makes us uncomfortable too?

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I grew up hearing about locker room convos and men gcs but I’ve never been on one of those situations. However I’ve been in groups of women who pass nudes around and have those crass convos ab private things. Are yall aware it makes us uncomfortable too?

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Anonymous 21h

i hate when u guys do this stuff like “men do this bad thing but women do it too!!” like okay?? im sorry that happened to you but like what do you want us to do about it. yes the majority of us who aren’t terrible people realize it is illegal and weird to share nudes

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Anonymous 21h

that is very obviously bad, yes.

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Anonymous 21h

I have never seen that happen with women made chats. That’s horrible. Unfortunately I have seen my friend’s nudes get shared around after she was raped

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Anonymous 21h

FOR THE RECORD. I know it happens in a lot of men’s groups, this is my personal experience though. And I know it’s typically more harmful and damaging when done to women but I’ve had my nudes leaked by someone I thought could trust but she didn’t even recognize that it was a problem for me

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Anonymous 21h

I’ve never seen that happen in women chats. But okay if it makes you feel bad then fine? But who was saying men’s gc make us uncomfortable. I’ve never been uncomfortable knowing men have group chats. It’s not my business so I don’t care

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Anonymous 19h

I either have no real friends or I am good at friend selection because I have never sent nudes to other girls. I would only do it if the dick was sent without permission and it pissed me off but even then that’s pushing it. I will however send screenshots of chats that are sexual because I NEVER ask for it or profiles of obviously horny men on dating apps because it’s my coping mechanism.

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Anonymous

#1 21h

Okay bc I felt like shit but she kept saying “it wasn’t even a bad picture” and “I was just telling them how big you are”. I get some people want to hear that but that doesn’t help at all

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Anonymous

#2 21h

also i didn’t mean for that to sound insensitive because ive had similar things happen and i know its an awful thing to experience so im gen sorry. but this post just reads to me as “are women aware that sexual assault it bad??” like yes we are

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Anonymous

#2 21h

Hi, thanks for your empathy and response. SA when it comes to men tends to be a bit of a tricky subject bc often we(me really) don’t have people to validate the experience. I asked bc there’s not much education on what sexual harassment looks or feels like as a man so I wasn’t sure if I could even call it that. I’m not trying to be divisive or anti-woman, just trying to make sense of these things

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OP 19h

i def get that i think the way you phrased it just came off as a little invalidating for us who experience ts from men all the time. but what she did was 100% wrong and your feelings about it are totally valid

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