Ok so I’m a guy and have never really had hookup type relationships till now. What’s the word on disclosing std’s and such? I’ve been tested recently and I’m clean but should I ask her? Is it assumed that she’d say something if she had something?
i personally would just ask! It’s always a risk unfortunately💔
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Anonymous20h
always a good idea to ask about their testing history. it may not be a sexy conversation but it’ll save ya from being burned
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Anonymous20h
Ask her and listen to her, use protection and be transparent and honest with her. I hope u have fun!
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Anonymous18h
Ask and use protection. You could also try having a test exchange, you show yours she shows hers, of course there’s the chance that she had ai make it and never got tested but that’s the risk. Protect yourself. All you can do.
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Anonymous17h
It’s not a sexy conversation but it’s the responsible thing to do, I usually just say “Hey sorry if this is awkward or whatever but I last got tested on [whatever date] and I’m clean, when was your last test?” or something like that
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Anonymous4h
Yeah definitely the move to say you’re clean and ask if they’ve been tested recently
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Anonymous2h
It’s not accusatory or anything it’s about being safe. No one wants to catch and while just having fun never assume anyone would just tell you. It’s not to point fingers it’s just looking out for yourself.
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Anonymous#220h
Ahh! Conflicting advice lmao. You don’t think it’d be a turnoff to ask? Idk how id bring it up without sounding accusatory but I’m just tryna be safe
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AnonymousOP20h
And yes I always use protection 🙏
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AnonymousOP20h
personally I don’t think it’s accusatory it’s just necessary for both of you! And she’ll be grateful for your clean bill of health too💖
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AnonymousOP20h
If it’s a turnoff for her, that kinda of a red flag imo
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Anonymous#120h
Yk that’s fair, I’ll get over myself and just ask lmao. I appreciate the advice yall 🙏