Ask Women on Yik Yak | Girls I need advice… I wanna hookup with this guy but how is it supposed to start? Like I come over to his place, I come through the door, then do we just start kissing and get to it or what??

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Ask Women 13h

Girls I need advice… I wanna hookup with this guy but how is it supposed to start? Like I come over to his place, I come through the door, then do we just start kissing and get to it or what??

Anonymous 13h

i used to have a fair amount of hookups and usually i always vetted them through text/snap (both for safety reasons and to establish SOME SORT of relationship). usually when we’d meet up we’d chat for a bit about our common interests then slowly get into but ig it’s different for some people.

Anonymous 9h

If you can’t vet him, hell no. If yes, walk in, talk for a bit, let the chemistry build and sexual tension and inevitably one of you is gonna get handsy.

Anonymous 13h

"netflix and chill" is a cliche but the idea is solid. just think of something to do that's a plausible excuse and lets you settle in a bit

Anonymous

#1 13h

essentially, my advice is to avoid making it awkward by just talking when it’s right and also kissing/stripping when it’s the right time for that lol. hopefully he’ll kinda lead so you know the vibe well enough. best of luck bbg 🙏🏼

Anonymous

#1 13h

Of course I ALWAYS vet them on any socials i can’t find of theirs. i just need to know when to switch from talking to getting sexual. I don’t think I can do that. I’m pretty straightforward and not smooth so I’d literally just ask him “wanna fuck now?”

Anonymous

OP 13h

Wyd if you can’t find socials or they don’t exist

Anonymous

#2 11h

i meant “can”

Anonymous

#4 9h

I set sexual expectations before I arrivetoo

Anonymous

#4 7h

expectations like what?

Anonymous

OP 7h

Boundaries, what we prefer, what we imagine sex and/or anything before and after would look like, test compatibility etc