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Am I wrong? My gf snapped at me bc I tried to initiate sex. It’s been a few days since I’ve seen her so I was really wanting her sexually & tried to initiate right when I got over. She was upset & said I always want sex right away. I understand her pov
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Anonymous 20h

It depends on how you initatied it tbh. I could see snapping being an over reaction or completely valid depending. It’s normal to desire your partner, but Almost no one wants to be seen as just a sex object in their relationship. It lowkey sounds like you’re making her feel unappreciated in non sexual ways

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Anonymous 20h

Ok reading your other comment. If you could tell she wasnt 100% feeling it why the FUCK would you continue?

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Anonymous 20h

did you stop the second she seemed uninterested? Did you do anything to see if she was on the same page before you started to initiate?

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Anonymous 20h

feel like we're missing some context here

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Anonymous 20h

I don’t want her to feel used but is it not normal to crave your partner?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

There’s not really much else context.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

yes there is lol e.g. how did you initiate?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

was she trying to talk to you about something? did you have plans? did she indicate that she wasn't in the mood? did she say no when you started?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

How I usually do. Just touching/grinding on her, kissing, tried to lead her to the bedroom

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

No we were just having normal conversation nothing particular. We didn’t have plans since it was raining. She seemed a bit off when I got there. I could tell she wasn’t 100% feeling it but I expected her to say something instead of just snapping on me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

I stopped when she snapped on me. We usually start sex off that way so I wasn’t thinking anything different

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

it wasn't necessarily okay of her to snap on you but if you could tell she wasn't feeling it you probably should have stopped or asked what was up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

I feel like there may have been body language you missed. Honestly it sounds like both of you need to be a lot better about communicating your feelings and intentions

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

Because she didn’t communicate?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

If you can tell someone isn’t 100% enthusiastic that is more than enough communication to stop

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

are you genuinely slow?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

It’s not normal to go from “hello nice to see you again” straight to sex. If you actually liked her, you’d want to talk to her first.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13h

Weetar dead teenage girl brain take

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Always the man’s fault, op make sure you take responsibility for all her actions and moods ~ women have no agency when it’s convenient

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13h

thanks for your input, you seem extremely mad

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

No, u.

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