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Genuinely please please please how is it possible to get over a boy you didn’t date but he acted like it and we were actually very serious but he randomly decided he doesn’t want me anymore. Idc if I look desperate I keep trying but ik it’s gonna get to t
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Anonymous 3w

As someone who’s been there, you’ve got to go your separate ways. You’ll only respect yourself less the more you hold on. It seriously can eat away at you without even realizing it.

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Anonymous 3w

It’s gonna get to the point where I have to stop completely and I can’t stand the idea. I don’t want us to drift apart it’s making me insane

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Anonymous 3w

Like why doesn’t he want me anymore I don’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I just can’t understand what went wrong when everything was perfect. That’s why I’m having such a hard time. I feel like we’re in weird middle ground where nothing is certain

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I know.. that’s on him for not communicating. I wasted years never receiving that answer and it was difficult, but in the end, you shouldn’t even want to be with someone that would leave you in the dark like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

It’s like we’re still in contact but barely. That’s why I’m struggling. Idc if I look crazy I won’t give up yet

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

The more you push and keeps trying, he will likely eventually just cut you off completely. That tends to be how things go:/

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I mean I’d almost rather that. It’s harder for me bc when I ask if everything’s good between us he says yes. So he’s not really giving any answers which is why I can’t get over it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

The last time this happened between us I left him on opened for a week then he reached out asking to fix things, if I leave him on opened again do you think that will happen again? I’m just scared he wouldn’t reach out again

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

bbygirl, if he doesn’t wanna reach out to you now and fix things, let him go. you can’t keep waiting on a man to be certain on what he wants with you. the right man will want you always, and will show you. if u really do still care about it, don’t worry abt trying to get him to reach out. separate from him and go no contact and if he wants to make the effort and show u he won’t just bail on you again, then you can talk abt it. but it seems like he’s not even sure what he wants

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