Anonymous #2 1w

This is false nuance. Just say u blame men. Ur making a choice BECAUSE of how u think men are

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Anonymous #2 1w

Ur response is exactly what I expected

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Anonymous OP 1w

Buddy it’s not false nuance just because you don’t understand it. Decisions don’t happen in a vacuum. Again, me choosing to stay single is a response to my environment and personal experiences. I’m distinguishing fault from cause. I won’t blame any individual men, I’m just acknowledging the broader social implications for women dating in today’s society. Your response is nuh uh you hate men, and that just tells me you’re only looking to justify your own opinion.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Fault, cause, same thing. Why is it so hard for u to admit u blame it all on men? Maybe ur problem is ur ignoring the good men

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Anonymous OP 1w

No it’s not the same thing, and once again your response can be summed up to “nuh uh you just hate men”. Original.

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Anonymous OP 1w

u r part of the reason theres a male lonliness epidemic for asking dumb shit like this and then being dense when someone gives a very normal and accurate response

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Anonymous #3 1w

“Male loneliness epidemic” yet there are millions of women out there. The math ain’t mathing. I’m actually tired of hearing that term. It’s literally so stupid

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Anonymous #4 1w

i personally believe the term “male loneliness epidemic” is stupid, OP just seemed the type to relate to that type of vocab based on their previous comments

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Anonymous #3 1w

Success of dating is determined by your own self and not by others. Some people should really should think about that

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Anonymous #4 1w

yeah ik i agree w what #2 said, it was OP who didnt get this idea very well

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Anonymous #3 1w

I don’t get it. It’s NOT that complicated.

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Anonymous #3 1w

It’s not my fault, at least completely

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Anonymous #6 1w

I was going to be alone anyway

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeahh that's not a good way to think...black pilled ppl believe their dating failures will be forever permanent and end up blaming themselves for not being good enough. You need to see a therapist like SERIOUSLY, not even in a joking way but bc you are mentally not in a good place rn.

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Anonymous #6 1w

What if I told u I’m thinking abt approaching a girl for the first time?

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Anonymous #6 1w

Nvm. She left

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Anonymous #6 1w

Nvm. She’s back

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Anonymous OP 1w

Nvm. Her friend joined her

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Anonymous OP 1w

It sounds like she’s made her choice because of the bad men she’s had bad experiences with. That’s not “blaming it on men”, that’s blaming it on the assholes she’s encountered and on her preference for less assholery in her life. Nobody likes their life to be full of assholery. Can ya blame her?

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Anonymous #5 1w

As a woman with uncertain (not tested because of the stupid government) possible neurodivergence, I often get along well with autistic people. Pretty sure autistic women are less likely to be diagnosed, but they (we?) exist and often experience many of the same challenges with human interaction that you do. There is probably a woman your age saying the exact same thing you just said.

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Anonymous #7 1w

U don’t have it as bad as neurodivergent men

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Anonymous #5 1w

One thing I like about friends that don’t have unspoken social rules programmed into their brains is that we can make up our own rules. With the right friend group, no one tells me I can’t flip a coin to avoid a decision, and I’m pretty sure some of my autistic friends appreciate having that as an option. I find it’s easier to human if I allow myself to human how my brain wants to, without added pressure.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Do it anyways and laugh it off if you get rejected like everyone does. Don't take it personally

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Anonymous #6 1w

A bit too late lol

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