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I’ve tried dating several times and I get I’m not one to be considered attractive but I either don’t get a chance or never a second date and they start talking to me like trash. I don’t think I was being a dick and just trying to be social any thoughts
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Anonymous 2w

I think it’s a lot of people are immature at this age (assuming you are 18-23) and a lot of people have their focus on college or school or work Not to say you deserved to be treated like trash

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Yeah 21 but trying to get into dating last semester to try and find some connection and have something outside of college. Idk maybe just inexperienced bc I’ve never dated before 21 and I’ve never had a long term relationship or hookup so maybe I’m just doing something wrong. At this point I might give and reside myself to being alone bc that shit sucks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Honestly as a woman (same age) it’s been super hard for me to find anyone actually serious about a relationship rather than just wanting casual sex. I’m hoping our age group grows out of it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I wouldn’t say it’s a problem with you, just the general cohort’s perspective

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Me too bc I don’t want casual sex but it seems that’s what people want and I’m not for that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I’m glad I’m not the only one bc I was second guessing the hell out of myself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah no don’t worry!! Happens to a lot of people. It’s normal to feel lonely, especially in this day and age. I think focusing on making meaningful friendships might help more

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

They do for the most part but when I’m alone those feelings just creep back in

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah me too 💔😔 but I keep in mind that anything is possible and (more likely than not) have time to find something. It’s definitely hard but don’t push yourself down

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