Men use their hand to take things that they desire. Mens hands look different from women's hands. Rougher, more veiny, often have small scars The idea of being desired and "taken" by a man can be exciting. Imagining manly hands touching you in an expression of that desire... etc... Not all mens hands are attractive to all women. Some hands, to some women. Not all women want to be desired or "taken" or even touched.