Am I alone in this? I would rather a guy at a bar/club hitting on me offer me his number as opposed to asking for mine.
I feel like this is less aggressive, gives me time to accept but think before texting and makes me feel safer.
The reason we never do this is that we will never hear back from 99/100 women by doing this. You guys never message first generally speaking
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Anonymous8w
yeah, but that would also mean that you would have to message first and a lot of women normally don’t do that because even though he started the interaction, you have to start the texting interaction
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Anonymous8w
No same frfr
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Anonymous8w
2 is blocked for me 😬
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Anonymous8w
#8 but atp I feel like I need that filtering. Not that I’m getting play like that, but a lotta the bullshit I’d be dealing with in my head would at least be easier for me if the girl technically texted first
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Anonymous8w
😂
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Anonymous8w
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Anonymous8w
lol it’s a joke. It’s from a song
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Anonymous8w
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AnonymousOP8w
Yooo she said 67
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Anonymous#58w
That’s kinda the point. If I was into you I would. But the fact is the hottest guy could approach me and I, being shy, would shit down and not respond well. When in reality I’m shy not, not interested.
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Anonymous#68w
creepy guy asking for her number
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AnonymousOP8w
yeah, that’s honestly fair
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Anonymous8w
Yea dude, give her your social security number. Go fuck yourself you creep why you acting like they owe it to you 😒
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Anonymous#58w
That tracks
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Anonymous8w
I think it says a lot that you're being met with such hostility just for saying that
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AnonymousOP8w
Jenny is that you??? pls call me back /j
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Anonymous#88w
sure, maybe. but for a girl you like, you’d be willing to wait, not get instant gratification. I waited for my current gf to text me back. and plus how would you ever know if you didn’t try
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AnonymousOP8w
Or just do what everyone does and give your number and just ghost and block afterwards. It’s that simple
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Anonymous#128w
There is no instant gratification getting a girls number means relatively nothing. Neither does going on a first date in terms of getting a relationship.