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What are your favorite ways to be told you are attractive? Both by strangers and by people you have high comfort level with?
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Anonymous 5w

I love when ppl tell me they love my outfit! I’ve never had anyone outwardly say: ur so pretty! But I’ve had many complement my fit n it feels better to have ppl affirm my more alternative style

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Anonymous 5w

What wing leader said but especially when you can tell we put extra effort in or changed something up. Also, complimenting feature is nice like eyes, hair, etc.

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Anonymous 4w

When someone compliments my smile or says I smell nice 😭❤️

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Anonymous 5w

Complimenting my outfit or makeup. I worked hard on it 😂

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Anonymous 5w

Compliments on my hair, outfit, perfume, etc

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Anonymous 5w

I love it when people compliment my eyes and my smile but overall if you say something about my personality I will remember your face and always give a friendly smile. I rarely get uncomfortable unless I sense that something isn’t right

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Anonymous 4w

Don’t compliment me, compliment the adorable spider in my hand

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Anonymous 5w

Anytime a woman compliments just about anything it’s butterflies. When men do it it’s meh because their compliments are always sexual and repetitive.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

How would you feel if someone did outwardly say “you’re so pretty”? Would it be weird or would you feel good about it? Like someone you were theoretically attracted to

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

🙏🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

If someone did say that in passing I’d appreciate it. If I keep walking n they keep demanding my attention I wouldn’t. Dropping a compliment that says I’m gorgeous or pretty or beautiful will always be met with a smile, it’s just the persistence that could be an issue. Even if I’m attracted to the individual, if I show no interest in continuing to speak to them, I’d like them to respect that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

100% makes perfect sense, thank you for your input!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Of course!! Also if someone does react negatively to an innocent compliment, it is 100% not ur problem. Sometimes ppl can b full of themselves, even girls have this issue where they give a compliment to another girl and they don’t respond positively. Just respect their boundaries n that’s all u can do!

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