You might not be lying but I don’t think you’re telling the “full” truth either, in my experiences I’ve found women will say they want something but then when they get presented with it they suddenly want 5 more things so that person they said they wanted is no longer good enough when right in front of them
to be fair, i think in a lot of cases its not as black and white as simply, does money matter yes or no. Is the guy attractive, how did he approach the woman, is she getting over someone, is she in a tough spot, and most of all, its better to get screwed over by someone who is more well off, its less embarrassing