
Emotional intelligence is highly attractive because it saves relationships. Being socially aware & physically able to put oneself in someone else's shoes is how relationships last a lifetime. When you love someone, psychologically, they become more physically attractive in your eyes over time - even when looks are statistically average.
kinda my point tho. being an “incel” doesn’t mean you’re unattractive, it simply means you’re oftentimes insecure or in the wrong communities that tell you these things, like women caring about looks or being superficial. yeah neurodivergent people can be more insecure or more vulnerability or lack community in a lot of situations. that make sense to me. doesn’t change anything.