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Hey everyone! One of my classmates and I have had an odd dynamic, and I was curious to hear from people what they think could be going on. If anyone has a take, I'd be curious to hear from you! Thanks so much
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Hi! My classmate and I have an odd dynamic, and I'm unsure what to make of it. She initiates conversations with me in-person, and I noticed she gives me more attention than everyone else even despite being friends with everyone (continued in comments)
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Anonymous 1d

I would think it’s one of two things: either she just wants to be your friend, or she has a crush but is getting nervous. I have some friends that, when they like a guy, get scared at points and pull back. It’s stupid and counterintuitive, but it happens 🤷‍♀️ that being said, it could also be that she just wants to be friends, occasionally is getting the vibe you like her, and she pulls back to discourage it. Unfortunately it’s really hard to know without actually knowing the person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I would probably lean towards she has a crush, but this is one of those things where you’re gonna have to go with your gut. I could easily be completely wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Thank you for letting me know! I did wonder if she could have a crush but was hesitant to think that because of the mixed signals and also fear that would be conceited of me. But you make a good point, I wondered this when she once proposed us hanging out together out of class together and when she asked me if I would want others around, I said she can invite others if she wanted to. She did but she seemed disappointed I said yes to that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I also noticed despite her being extroverted and social with everyone, including me, despite her initiating conversations with me in-person, she seems a bit more anxious around me but at the same time smiles a lot

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I appreciate your advice and thanks for reading it all! I'll have to think about it. I won't lie my gut feeling is to agree with you, but the mixed signals is what confuses me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yeah I would think she likes you based on that. She’s probably just nervous!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Thanks again for reading and sharing what you think! I appreciate it. I'm gonna try to initiate in-person too in hopes it helps

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