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Ask Women 1w
this girl that i met, she’s given me mixed signals like one moment she’s flirty next she friend zones me. and when i say flirty i mean FLIRTY like she has to stop herself. she has said she’s not looking for anything…yet. she recently admitted feelings..
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Anonymous 1w

It’s a push and pull thing. She likes the attention and is emotionally immature. It’s an exciting game for her and it all depends on if you want to play it or be a victim to it. Best advice is to push when she pulls. Basically play hard to get but leave bread crumbs like what she’s doing or just be mature and disengage entirely

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Anonymous 1w

Believe what she's telling you the first time. She is not looking for anything 🤷🏽‍♀️ maybe she likes flirting with you because she just enjoys flirting. Maybe she's bored. But don't waste your time looking for something that isn't there

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Anonymous 1w

so now that do i do? i don’t wanna force her but i’m confused what to do

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Anonymous 1w

you're on her roster but she hasn't made a final decision

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Anonymous 1w

You want my honest opinion? It’s a waste of time. I typically don’t find lifelong trust in people who are back and forth like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

she’s told me she wanted to see where things went but to be with me would be hard for her so i def get it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

If you're comfortable just being an option then by all means go ahead. But I think you deserve to try to be with someone who knows they want you

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Anonymous replying to -> themostcuriouswanderer 1w

another thing, she’s new to my area like moved from across the country she has no other friends here other than me and some of my female cousins

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Not all that relevant. This could be how she’d like to be perceived just understand that she’s playing a game with you and might not even be consciously aware of what she’s doing. She is likely doing whatever feels good/right in the moment which is why her actions seem inconsistent. She is impulsive and immature seemingly and you can work with that if you’d like. The main issue is you are thinking too much just understand that she is doing WHATEVER FEELS GOOD IN THE MOMENT with no second thought

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