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We were talking for a few days, things were going great and then she ghosted me right before the official meetup. This keeps happening. Why do women do this (yes I am generalizing, yes ik not always blah blah but it keeps happening to me)??
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Anonymous 1d

I promise I’m not trying to victim blame you! But if it keeps happening, maybe you’re asking to meet up too soon or putting too much pressure to say yes? Women do this if they didn’t want to meet up and only said yes to avoid directly rejecting the other person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

This is just based on my experience. Also possible that the women were being plain rude and you’re unlucky. But either way best of luck

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

You’re not and I appreciate it. It’s not victim blaming sometimes it’s just accountability. However, she wanted to get Wendy’s! I offered a day that worked in my schedule (I’m a PhD student) and she wanted it that day! Then backpedaled :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Dang I’m sorry about that. It might just be a case of wrong girl wrong time. Her loss, if I were you I’d go to Wendy’s and get myself a frosty and fries anyways :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Aww tysm (I’m kicking my feet in the air rn)

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