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Ask Women 8w
Do some guys on dating apps have pen-pal energy? Or are there women who are just like that with everyone? Tryna diagnose and figure out if my profile needs a rework cause at this point I’m desperately hoping it’s a me issue
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Anonymous 8w

I probably come across like that bc I have whatever the opposite of flirty energy is with people I don’t actually know. With strangers I’m just gonna be more nice and friendly until I’m comfortable

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

And even if they’re flirting with me I’m just so awkward and will dial it back until I know them better

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

^^^

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Well I’m not talking about a vibe or how flirty you are. I mean more concretely what do you do when/if the person you’re talking to actually asks you out?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

oh yea that’s a given for me on a dating app. i’m pretty sure you’d have to be crazy to go on a dating app and not be interested in going on a date with the person you matched with and continue to want to talk to

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