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Can you try and sell me the independent educated American woman? I 28M have at this point travelled around the globe and met soooo many women. My first serious relationship was such a woman. As I think about what I really want…
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Anonymous 4w

i don’t think any independent educated woman would want you… esp if you’re talking like this

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Anonymous 4w

This is gross and creepy. Wanting an extreme power imbalance in your relationship is a MAJOR red flag. Women are not dogs. You cannot “train” them

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Anonymous 4w

whisking away a 20 something from a Vietnam hostel who, wants to build into my life sounds more fun🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

seems like you want a woman you can build up into being like an american woman so u can be her hero and get her a green card

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

nobody is going to sell you anything and idc what u think but as an independent educated american woman i highly enjoy traveling the globe with my independent educated american man (we are in europe together rn)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I just think the arm candy woman honestly brings more to the table from my prospective, I don’t want to control someone, I want be like have you tried sculpture and be able to share my passions with someone who hasn’t had a space to develop passions. At the end of an independent educated woman you find that they just want their nails done so other women are jealous, it’s impossible to find someone with values that don’t give me the ick and the more independent the more dead set and stubborn.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I think it’s at independence, I see women less empowering each other as independent but attempting to build an independent collective independence. Which has lead to off putting conformity like the more “independent and educated” a woman is l, to me she just seems exactly like all the other women and loses uniqueness. I would rather marry someone who didn’t have to do it alone and give them a comfy fun life and create joy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

People cannot be trained and thinking implying so is dehumanizing, I am merely saying that I have seen all the experience independence brings and the baggage it makes you bring to the table all I am saying is sell me looking local, to value an independent educated woman. It’s only a red flag if you’re a shitty person, I just know I can give a girl an amazing life but every American woman I meet already feels entitled to it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

you said so many messed up things, i don’t know where to start. first of all saying you want an “independent educated American woman” but also saying “be able to share my passions with someone who hasn't had a space to develop passions” doesn’t make any sense. along with you trying to explain what you think an independent educated woman is. any independent educated woman would have their own passions and wouldn’t base their whole identity over what their partner likes.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Saying you want us to “sell” you the “independent educated American woman” is crazy and dehumanizing. No one is going to try and convince you to date these women, either find someone you love or don’t. And saying you want someone who isn’t stubborn and has no passions already just sounds like your searching for a child or someone child like to “save”. And from all the typos and grammar mistakes in this post, something tells me that the educated American woman wouldn’t want you anyways💀💀

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