
Think about the context she’s in! Some bars/clubs where it’s crowded, and men outnumber women, it’s intimidating to be a woman and every few seconds a new strange man is trying to touch you/approach you. It’s better to be in a space where she’s comfortable and you’re comfortable, and then depending on the establishment you can initiate conversation very casually in a low stakes way, like by offering to buy her a drink or asking her to dance. Don’t touch her unprompted, or push if she says no