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How do I go about approaching women I find attractive at the bars?
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Anonymous 1d

Wait until you find a woman attractive at a bar and then approach

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Anonymous 1d

i always a appreciate a good compliment and when someone offers to buy me a drink.

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Anonymous 1d

“Hi I thought you were pretty can I buy you a drink?” Or even a nice compliment about her outfit can go a long way.

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Anonymous 16h

Think about the context she’s in! Some bars/clubs where it’s crowded, and men outnumber women, it’s intimidating to be a woman and every few seconds a new strange man is trying to touch you/approach you. It’s better to be in a space where she’s comfortable and you’re comfortable, and then depending on the establishment you can initiate conversation very casually in a low stakes way, like by offering to buy her a drink or asking her to dance. Don’t touch her unprompted, or push if she says no

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