Ask Women on Yik Yak | How are we supposed to date as avg looking single guys when half of single women aren‘t even on the market and the other half probably either have rlly high standards or are chopped?

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Ask Women 1d

How are we supposed to date as avg looking single guys when half of single women aren‘t even on the market and the other half probably either have rlly high standards or are chopped?

Ask Women 2d

historybuff

Are you single?

#poll

By choice

Bc u haven’t found the right guy

No men express imterest in u

58 votes

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Anonymous 1d

I think you need to ask yourself. Are YOU chopped?

Anonymous 1d

Even if you are chopped a lot of women who have high standards just want to be treated like a human being and that they are actually loved. You’re complaining about looks when take a moment to look at your personality and wonder if that is the reason why.

Anonymous 1d

Well I am single and looking so I can tell you something that gave me the ick. You calling women chopped isn’t getting you any favors. If you're looking for people to date, maybe don't be rude to them

Anonymous 1d

Idk. That’s your problem

Anonymous 1d

I think it stems from your view of a relationship as a goal to accomplish, a transaction. You’re coming at it with an expectation, as opposed to allowing things to progress naturally. Take interest in hearing about a girl’s day, show up with consistency and intentionality, but don’t ONLY do it with her. Do it with everyone in your life, and that kind of care radiates. Pick up a hobby for YOU, maybe refresh your wardrobe if you can. You need to decentralize the idea of dating

Anonymous 1d

Anonymous 1d

if you think most women's standards are high then you're probably the problem

Anonymous 20h

“high standards” & all she wants is to be taken out on dates & flowers y’all “men” literally js don’t wanna do SHIT

Anonymous 1d

What do you consider to be high standards

Anonymous 22h

for someone whose allegedly in grad school you sure are stupid my god

Anonymous 1d

chud😭

Anonymous 1d

Just be Chad brooo……

Anonymous 1d

You don’t

Anonymous 1d

Oh brother

Anonymous 1d

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Anonymous

#1 1d

And I will make it everyone’s problem, especially this community

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Anonymous

OP 1d

We can just block you and ignore you. You can’t rly do much

Anonymous

#1 1d

Ok. Go ahead

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Anonymous

#2 1d

R u chopped or not, tho?

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Anonymous

OP 1d

This is why you’re single brother.

Anonymous

#1 1d

Bc I have standards?

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Anonymous

#1 1d

No. I’m mid

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Anonymous

OP 1d

Then why are you so upset. You’re choosing to not date until you find someone you like (as you should) but that’s your choice, just like all the women staying single of their own choice, so how you gonna be mad

Anonymous

#1 1d

You literally mentioned women for having high standards in this post. You a hypocrite or something

Anonymous

OP 1d

Might as well be chopped then since you don’t have a good personality either. Like chose a battle bro. I’d rather an ugly little freak with a standout personality than some mid dude with the charisma of wet cardboard

Anonymous

#1 1d

Idk

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Anonymous

#1 1d

I’m not dating either way, so…🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous

OP 1d

Then you might as well stop complaining

Anonymous

#1 1d

Well, I mean, I’d like to date

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Anonymous

OP 1d

That’s on you to figure out then. Posting this shit isn’t gonna make anyone wanna date you or make all the women who are single by choice suddenly question their decisions. If anything they’re just gonna see this and think “thank goodness I’m choosing to be single”

Anonymous

#1 1d

How do I seem more desirable beyond not acting like this?

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Anonymous

OP 1d

Honestly idk! I don’t know you

Anonymous

#1 1d

I‘m a dark brown haired, brown eyed 5‘7 24 yr-old grad student who studies history, likes reading, music, politics, and Star Wars. I sometimes work out. I‘m chill

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Anonymous

OP 1d

Do you put yourself in a position to meet women?

Anonymous

#1 1d

Wym?

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Anonymous

#3 1d

skill issue

Anonymous

#7 1d

By becoming more sure of who YOU are, the things that YOU like, it gives you healthy outlets to explore and build confidence. That has a ripple effect. It sounds counterintuitive, but the best thing you can do is maybe see a therapist, go back to school, start a new hobby… grow YOURSELF.

Anonymous

#7 1d

Also - it helps if said new hobby involves meeting people

Anonymous

#7 1d

This is so cope lmao

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Anonymous

#6 1d

Idk, my long term partner and most of my social life disagrees. Sometimes not being an asshole is half the battle.

Anonymous

#7 1d

“I see it so it must be true”

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Anonymous

#13 20h

That’s it? I can do that. Do u expect to be picked up and dropped off tho?

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Anonymous

OP 19h

i rlly hope u don’t think that’s high standards 😭😭 how else is she getting to & from the date?!?! u don’t need a gf fr

Anonymous

#13 19h

Driving? Uber?

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Anonymous

#13 19h

She has w car, right?

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Anonymous

#6 16h

So much pent up anger that you need to be out here talking shit on YIKYAK of all things. Embarrassing as fuck, dude.

Anonymous

OP 15h

she might not? besides it's polite

Anonymous

OP 15h

that’s literally not the point of YOU have a car as a man why would u want ur gf riding in an uber…

Anonymous

#13 15h

if*

Anonymous

#12 13h

What of I don’t drive bc of a disability?

Anonymous

OP 13h

uber?

Anonymous

#13 12h

Ok, that’s what I said before lol

Anonymous

OP 12h

i’m tb YOU if you physically cannot drive then yes uber if u can there should be reason that you cannot pick the girl up for the date & make sure she makes it home safely…