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I have this approach, every-time my girlfriend decides she wants me to regularly do more than I am already doing, I say yes sure! And immediately offer one of my laundry list items of things I wish she did more. This seems to cause trouble. Any ideas!
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Anonymous 3w

Obviously that causes trouble when you guys don’t have an actual conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

What do you mean "actual conversation"

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Clearly you are not talking about your issues like an adult and she isn’t either. Or is, and you’re exaggerating how she’s doing it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

How would an adult talk about issues?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Uh…by not throwing an issue back at her??? By having an actual conversation about what is bothering you/her and god idk, actually working to better yourself??

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