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I think this woman I care about thinks I hate her, but in reality I care about her. In the past we talked on and off. Shes seen me talk with mutual friends that are women, so I can imagine what’s going through her head. I have 0 feelings for those women.
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Anonymous 1w

Have any women been on the other side of the situation that I am explaining? I don’t hate her. I just wish she knew that me not talking to her is because of my own feelings and nothing she did.

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Anonymous 1w

She 100% thinks you hate her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Maybe try explaining that to her instead of leaving her in the dark??

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Anonymous 1w

That’s the situation with this woman for me. I used to talk to her. Then went from hot to cold to hot to cold again. I closed off, because I don’t want to continue getting close to her, without fully understanding what I want. I’m forming a love bond in the most unhealthy way possible, and setting my heart up to likely be broken.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Love, especially young love, is about taking that leap of faith. Don’t open up to her about it expecting anything (good or bad). Just talk to her about it and I’m sure you’ll find peace

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