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if my man had the strength to not fight back i would honestly respect that more. violence should be the very last resort always. holding himself back bc he knows it’s not worth it is much more attractive than just reacting for the sake of it.
What would you do if you saw someone beating up your bf and your bf refused to fight back? Would you be less attracted to your bf and go for the stronger guy?
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Anonymous 4w

But see, the question is asking if your bf was being attacked… would you honestly have him do absolutely nothing?!

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Anonymous 4w

I’m pretty sure my ex fucked me up so bad that I’m pushing my current boyfriend so far away because I feel like he’s out to hurt me too. Or like I’m expecting it.

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Anonymous 4w

I think there’s a difference between not wanting your bf to be violent and realizing he’s a wimp for not being able to defend himself or you if you’re being attacked.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

No one gets attacked and just stands there. It’s smarter to try to get away than to fight back most of the time and fighting back should be only if necessary

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

right. i would expect my man to get away if he could first bc fighting back can lead to a charge and escalate an already dangerous situation. if it was 100% necessary then sure but ONLY a last resort.

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