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So I started dating again, and I meet a guy on Facebook dating, but I’m not getting a good feeling about the guy coming to my dorm or like coming visit me at my dorm. Am I wrong or I’m just probably overthinking it. He seems like a good guy.
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Anonymous 5w

Girl ALWAYS trust your gut!!

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Anonymous 5w

I saw your comments about how this is a fairly common occurrence. If this is the case, you MIGHT have an over-sensitivity to potential danger signs, especially if you have past trauma or something. But you might also just be attracting a lot of bad people. It gets complicated because bad people are attracted to people who have past bad experiences, possibly BECAUSE of the tendency to second guess yourself.

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Anonymous 5w

Intuition is usually right. There are subtle details your subconscious picks up on that your brain doesn’t notice as quickly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Cancel pls, I regretted not doing it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Okay, I just want to seem like the bad guy knowing how guys make girls to seem when they’re rejected or say something. I just feel like it’s me not ready to date but I’m ready.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Yea I might have to do that, thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Just don’t want to make myself feel like I’m not ready to date but I’m ready and I blame myself a lot because of it due to me always say see ya later to guys

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Who gives a shit about how he feels. If he can’t handle rejection, that’s a him problem. You have every right to say no and don’t let any manipulative asshole tell you otherwise

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Sorry if this sounds aggressive cause I’m not meaning it to, I just feel a sense of urgency like I gotta defend you 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

No your good, it just makes me feel like I’m not crazy in my mind with overthinking and everything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

You’re not and even if you were wrong , it’s definitely better to be safe than sorry. People have saved their own lives just from having these type of off feelings.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I was thinking that too, cause sometimes your body know before the brain.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I stopped talking to the guy, so everything good now. Just focusing on myself

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