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How do you know it’s time to leave a relationship? Not gonna get into personal context bc it’s long winded, but it’s my first partner and we’ve dated for 3 years. Just want to hear some reasons you guys decided to stay or leave.
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Anonymous 4w

Long distance unless i was 100% sure we would get married in the future, cheating including microcheating, no longer being attracted to him, if he stopped doing special things, etc etc theres many

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Anonymous 3w

My last partner. I left because I didn’t see a future. He was struggling, so I’m the bad one. I thought that he should be able to get it together, if he truly loved me. He couldn’t stay in a job and he was miserable. Aside from that, we fought fiercely. Our minds were too different. He prioritized other things over me, to a point I didn’t feel loved.

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Anonymous 3w

The one before that, was too immature for me. Grew in a million dollar home. Did not work for the most of our relationship. I was studying, doing multiple jobs & cooking. He told me he was bored because I was too busy. I left because I realized he couldn’t understand my suffering or wish to grow together in any way.

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Anonymous 3w

And the one before that, I left because although he loved me like no other, I was conceited and selfish. I hate who I was then. But I still would do the same, I didn’t love him. And my first, was a mistake. I was young and did not know what we were doing. I was sweet, he was a normal pretty boy. He didn’t know better, and neither did I. I was told he was alone and crying at a park after our break up, and I can’t believe it because I didn’t feel his love that much.

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Anonymous 3w

I’ve never once looked back. What’s done had to be done. Right now, I’ve found the perfect person I could ever ask for. And I wouldn’t have been able to find him if I didn’t leave when I needed to.. I think you just know, when it’s the right person you’re with. So if you think you need to leave, I think that’s a sign.

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Anonymous 3w

Mine was an abuse reason. Besides that, I knew I didn’t love him anymore when I stopped fighting for him. That’s when I knew, I left after that.

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