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How important is aftercare? I’ve never had sex but I’d want to make sure I would be doing the right thing by asking for cuddles from a girl afterwards.
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Anonymous 17w

Aftercare is so much more than just cuddles, it’s cleaning up any messes on your partner and yourself, water/food, checking in verbally to see how they’re doing, if they had fun etc.

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Anonymous 17w

I would say at least for me personally it’s very important

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Anonymous 17w

Extremely, I feel used & gross when my bf doesn’t do aftercare

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Anonymous 17w

Just like with everything else, ask. It’s all about consent

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

Thank you for replying ma’am

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Anonymous replying to -> forget_me_not 17w

Thank you for the info! I’ve never had sex but when I do I want to make sure she is taken care of. I’m too embarrassed to ask this question in person. Thanks for being kind

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