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Yall serious question how do I go about my roommates talking about my other roommate infront of me? They continuously talk bad about her and try to create narratives to make her seem like she’s weird or a bad person. When they talk about her I’m silent
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Anonymous 1w

Like I’m respectful of their perspective it just makes me uncomfortable

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Anonymous 1w

Be straight up and say “hey I don’t necessarily like hearing you talk this way about our other roommate, it’s disrespectful and I’m not here for it”

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Anonymous 1w

“That’s a weird thing to say” Make them uncomfortable about saying those things, and they’ll stop

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Anonymous 1w

“Hey, I understand you’re just trying to vent your feelings, but from now on, I can’t be a part of these conversations. I find it disrespectful to our roommate and it is uncomfortable for me to be put in this position.”

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