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I’m a senior and I’ve missed out on so many college experiences that everyone is doing. I feel like I have to try 10 times harder to get a girl into me than a regular guy and they always get an ick from something I do.
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Anonymous 1w

I have good girl friends who I’m close with that say I’m normal but I’ve never seen this manifest irl. What’s wrong with me?

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Anonymous 1w

Just gotta work on your social skills.

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Anonymous 1w

do you know what you do that bothers them or are you assuming that based on the relationship not progressing?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I don’t know and girls don’t usually tell what those are, the few times I do end up talking to someone they show pretty clear interest at first but then it all just goes away. I’m feel like I’m always the one initiating conversation or putting in effort with things like compliments while also not being overwhelming. I’m clearly doing something wrong to not get any reciprocation.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I make friends easily and have a solid group. But with girls I just feel invisible or like an afterthought

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Social skills, meaning flirting my love.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

yeah I give compliments on things I notice like jewelry and ask about their lives but there’s never any interest or reciprocation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

There is a trick to that, but a lot will hate on it but it works 😂 For clarification, I’m a woman if that matters.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

what’s the trick lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Are you perhaps "chopped" as the kids say

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

The kids say… I’m cackling at that. I’m old too for reference 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Lmao maybe a little but I take care of myself and my friends say I’m fine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

the honesty is a good sign lol

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