Anonymous #2 23h

Because he deleted the comment

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Anonymous #1 21h

He wants to take away women’s autonomy just like how rapists do

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Anonymous #4 21h

He wants to enforce monogamy not force himself on women

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Anonymous #5 21h

But he also has role played raping someone on here, but also enforcing monogamy is wrong who are we to say what people do with their bodies?

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Anonymous OP 21h

Defending him isn’t a hill you want to die on

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Anonymous #5 20h

Enforcing monogamy with force is still stripping someone of their bodily autonomy in the same way rape denies someone’s bodily autonomy . He also said he wishes he had options so really he wants monogamy for thee but not for me

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Anonymous #4 20h

Exactly like he wants to enforce it specifically for women whereas the comments he made in the past show he doesn’t give a damn about monogamy for himself

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Anonymous OP 19h

Got it

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Anonymous #1 19h

Did you not read his last comment?

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Anonymous #3 17h

Yes it is

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Anonymous #3 17h

Sex positivity for people with no experience, but if you’ve been with people and keep getting with people, and keep getting with people, at a certain point it starts to look like a coping mechanism

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Anonymous #3 17h

Life is hard but it gets easier, relationships are hard but they get easier, if you never open up, or habitually blame others instead of fixing things, things don’t improve. Issues can’t resolve if you ignore them.

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Anonymous #4 17h

Alright fair I didn’t think about it like that

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Anonymous #7 17h

You get to do whatever you want, but some people don’t want that in a partner, they can’t enforce their standards on you, you shouldn’t try to enforce your standards on them, and definitely don’t try to people please and follow along with their standards when it’s not currently something you actually think is important.

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Anonymous #3 15h

It obviously is you imbecile lol

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Anonymous #4 15h

Not the same midwit

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Anonymous #8 12h

well you’re a fucking imbecile if you think there a difference between fucking someone 20 times vs 20 people once. explain to me how that’s physically different in any way

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Anonymous #3 12h

Over 20 times with one person you build a more emotional connection with them and develop a level of love, safety, trust, happiness. 20 different people you develop depression, desire to be wanted, loneliness, anxiety, loneliness, etc. but yeah we should give you the benefit of the doubt bc I’m sure if someone was stupid enough to sleep with you once they definitely wouldn’t make that mistake again, let alone 20 times

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Anonymous #5 11h

i’m laughing because i’ve literally only slept with people i’ve been in a relationship with. i’ve prolly had way more sex in my life than anyone with a high body count i’m just not dumb enough to subscribe to your purity culture bs. some people just want to be single but still have sex and that’s ok. it’s a normal part of being a human. you’re weird tryna police women’s choices but when it’s ur hbs it’s fine

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Anonymous #3 11h

Tf you talking abt purity culture it’s called fucking science. Just bc you don’t understand doesn’t make it some culty sounding way of life and show me where I said anything abt wanting to control women? Bc I just am pushing monogamy bc it’s significantly healthier and not at all the same as this weird 20 vs 20 scenario you seem to want to use

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Anonymous #5 11h

ur pushing monogamy because you’re an idiot who thinks there’s something unhealthy about consensual safe sex 😬

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Anonymous #3 11h

You’re claiming that there’s no difference, than scale shouldn’t matter. So if that’s the case, having consensual sex with 100 people versus one person 100 times is not different. 500? 1000?

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Anonymous #7 11h

i mean that’s a ridiculous and pointless question but like physically there is absolutely 0 difference?? i dont see how one option makes you “ran through” and one doesn’t.

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Anonymous #3 10h

Would you fully commit to a guy with 1000 bodies? Obviously there’s nothing wrong with someone choosing to only be in monogamous relationships or non-commital relationships, but if you are going to commit, since that’s “not different” than them having sex with (1-20) people 1000 times, it shouldn’t matter no?

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Anonymous #3 10h

I’m choosing 20 as an arbitrary number since that’s what you went with earlier

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Anonymous #7 9h

no one has 1000 bodies😭 but still, there is no difference physically. you still can’t explain how we are ran through for sleeping with different people rather than the same person. it’s okay to have sex if you are not in a relationship as long as it’s safe and consensual. idk why you’re tryna argue otherwise by making up ridiculous scenarios

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Anonymous #3 9h

People who pay for sex do

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Anonymous #3 9h

I know dudes in the 200s in their early twenties

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Anonymous #3 9h

That definitely do not pay for sex

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Anonymous #3 9h

They just pay by other means

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Anonymous #7 9h

Holy hell dude you need to seek Christ. Go contribute to society or something my God

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Anonymous #5 9h

I definitely do not have a thousand bodies.

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Anonymous #5 9h

I don’t understand how you can make any sort of judgement about me based on me saying what are basically facts?

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Anonymous #5 9h

You make assumptions too quickly, we’ve allready established that I guess

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Anonymous #7 9h

When did I make an assumption? I was just saying you need to contribute to society? I was referring to how much you’re defending this stupid argument not ur sex life. Assumptions must make an ass out of you and me so quit making me into an ass and go live a normal human life ya freak

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Anonymous #7 9h

not you bringing up prostitution because your argument makes no sense. you’ve still failed to explain to me how there’s anything morally wrong with non monogamous consensual safe sex

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Anonymous #5 8h

Where in my comments do I mention my sexlife? Are you making assumptions or are you misreading things?

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Anonymous #3 8h

There’s nothing wrong with non monogamous, consensual safe sex, but body count still indicates how frequently you switch partners. You can have non monogamous consensual safe sex and stable relationships, but if someone needs a new person every weekend, which people do, where are your priorities.

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In case you have trouble rereading your own messages 🖕🏻

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Anonymous #5 8h

Didn’t you say “you need to seek Christ” prior to that?

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Anonymous #7 8h

You claimed that you did not talk abt ur sex life. I showed you a screenshot proving you wrong. No other information is needed

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Anonymous #5 8h

I’m glad you still feel good about yourself

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Anonymous #7 8h

Your claim that 20 bodies and twenty hookups with the same person aren’t different is probably true spread over a longer time frame, but there are time frames where that isn’t the case, in terms of what’s required priority wise for that to be feasible, and other things.

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Anonymous #7 8h

their priorities are probably not related to being in a relationship if they’re sleeping with someone new every week. not sure what is wrong with that. different people want different things and people want different things at different times in their lives

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Anonymous #3 6h

I get that sex can be fun between two consenting parties and it doesn’t hurt anybody even if it’s a random. But personally I just don’t see the point in pursuing meaningless connections. Get a friend’s with benefits, ride that shit till somebody gets hurt. Get in a relationship, if it doesn’t work out, grow. It’s more of a personal preference thing than a “this is morally right or wrong” thing.

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Anonymous #3 6h

I don’t want a partner who can’t be productive, so I might be skeptical if they smoke weed 24/7, in the same way, I don’t want a partner who doesn’t value relationships in general, so if they to have a body count over like 70, and no period of celibacy or realignment of values, I will go into things extremely skeptically.

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Anonymous #3 6h

I do think there’s a difference between 20 randoms and a single partner, when it comes down to people pleasing, setting boundaries, external validation, and sometimes the way time is spent, (although these all could be issues someone in a relationship has) but that doesn’t make it morally wrong, I just think there’s a difference, and that distinction can be important.

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Anonymous #7 2h

well that’s your personal preference and not everyone feels that way so i’m not sure why you would try to push that onto other people. the point isn’t to pursue meaningless connections the point is to have sex. you say there’s a difference but have failed to explain to me how it impacts my body differently if i have sex with multiple people vs 1 the same amount of times you’re just pointing out a difference in lifestyle choices

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Anonymous #7 2h

i’m not sure why you’re looking at this through a lens of would you date this person…?😭 not everyone’s life choices are made so that they can date you

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Anonymous #7 18m

Why does body count matter? Isn’t the point that she’s with you now? Having a high body count doesn’t make someone a cheater

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