Anonymous #2 3w

No but I did tell her one time how one of our other friends bf made a comment calling me pretty, and idk how she related it to herself but she was like “I love u but I’d kill you if that scenerio ever happened with u and my bf” (mind u I never flirted with the other girls bf so it’s not my fault he even said that)

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Anonymous #2 3w

But that’s not when things got weird, it was like after a fully year of them dating when things started getting weird and honestly I’m just gonna stop reaching out cause it’s mostly me reaching out and I think she’s just stuck in the mindset that she’s gonna marry this guy and have kids soon and doesn’t care about having close girl friendships anymore.

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Anonymous OP 3w

wtf why would she kill YOU if it’d be him saying that?😭 it’s weird for her to take it out on u. but tbh u never know what’s going on in a relationship, it could be justified, but based on what you’ve said, it prob is for something weird

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Anonymous #2 3w

No idea, but again I’m guessing that probably came up in some type of argument and she probably told him to just not speak to me at all. I just think I need to distance myself because I don’t think she’s interested in close girl friendships as long as she has him

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Anonymous OP 3w

hmm i wonder if he’s doing the same thing to ur other friends too. he might’ve fucked up in another way and now that’s just the “rule” now😭

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Anonymous OP 3w

when my bf and i were still talking, he asked me to be his gf and i said no, he kept asking why, eventually i told him — it was bc my roommate kept flirting w him (we were all in a friend group) and it was just an uneasy feeling, he never feed into it but it was just gross to see, but i didn’t wanna cause drama in the friend group, and i loved her so i just let it play out. i made it clear i didn’t want him to be mean to her or change anything but he made the choice himself to avoid her

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Anonymous #2 3w

so it could be his own choice to ease her insecurities but based on what you’ve said i wouldn’t be surprised if she told him to do that

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Anonymous #2 3w

I mean, tbh I’ve drifted with the girl because she just stopped inviting me to the group hangouts assuming bc of him, BUT I do know her other friends have started to distance herself from her bc last time we spoke she told me about it. So I’m assuming they’re noticing the same weird things I’m noticing. I think our friendships just gonna come to an end now sadly, she does not put any effort it any more and it’s always me texting first

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Anonymous #2 3w

Your scenerio 100% makes sense and could be what’s happening though, but his blatant rudeness I believe is enough for me to be done with my friendship with her. At her bday dinner for example (mind u there was only a few of us there so it was a small table) he never said hi to me, didn’t acknowledge me at all, everytime I spoke he stared down at his phone, I literally felt like I was in the room with like someone who hated me it just ruined the vibes of a good night.

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Anonymous OP 3w

ok yeah everything you’ve said, she seems like a bitch, i’m sorry:( friendship breakups r harder than relationship breakups sometimes. that bday dinner night sounds awful omg. also like why would u want your man to be a rude person like that😭 id just let it drift fs

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