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I fell out of love with my long distance bf, but he hasn’t. I feel terrible, he is a great guy, I just don’t have the same feelings I used to. He is still in love and it hurts to think abt hurting him. Do I work to regain those feelings or leave?
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Anonymous 1d

If you once loved him, you can work to regain those feelings back. But if you really do care for him, he deserves to know and not be led on. I’m LD and it’s hard. Some weeks are quiet and filled with doubts but in the end I remember why we are together and what made me love him. Nobody can tell you what to do, but it’s okay to have doubts and question things sometimes. In the end LD works only if you fight for your love and work for it. You just don’t have constant reassurance

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Anonymous 1d

I feel the same as #1, coming from a fellow LD relationship, right now I don’t feel as close to my boyfriend as when we were not LD. It’s hard that we having been talking a lot lately and I do feel distant, but maybe a trip to see him or something of the sort to maybe spark things up again may remind you of your feelings

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Anonymous 1d

The initial spark, isn’t always gonna last in relationship. Is it that spark that’s gone or do you just not vibe with him anymore

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