You might be an avoidant and the only thing you can do is fight that feeling and communicate. Learn to be vulnerable. Its hard as hell but once you start letting go, things will become a little easier. It also helps when you have a partner that understands

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For context: I assume it’s not going anywhere out of a mistrust, like I assume they’re not serious abt me regardless of how I feel about them. Yet for some reason I get scared when it feels “real” so I genuinely just ghost them when they try to leave the talking stage. Ik it’s not right especially if I actually like them, but how do I get over that?!! I want my husband - f21

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