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Is it bad that I’d rather let the woman make all the sexual moves in a relationship? Because I know how y’all can be made uncomfortable very easily in that department
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Anonymous 4d

If the two of you are happy with it, it’s fine

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Anonymous 4d

It makes total sense and it’s fine to some degree, but a more traditional girls will expect a man to do most of the heavy lifting in that department, so it’s really about the values of the lady. A more progressive woman shouldn’t mind as long as the relationship is mutual, give and take and reciprocate etc

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Anonymous 3d

Just clarify boundaries and make a safe word for if either of you get uncomfortable

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

That’s the idea but my thing is I feel like the vast majority of women would prefer the man to take all the risks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

That’s why you communicate with your partner before getting sexual

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

How so

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

By asking their sexual preferences

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Everyone I’ve been with no one really makes most of the moves. It’s kinda mutual like you’re in a moment and then you both lean into it and go for whatever you’re doing

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Until they start doing cnc, the safe word is any form of ‘no’, lol. He knows that.

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