Ask Women on Yik Yak | So it went from, “I need alone time”randomly on the 3rd, to okay come over on the 5th n 6th, gap to 10th n said “I don’t know when we will hangout again”, to “Come over the 11th”, to now “I’ll be busy this week”. Women, explain what the hell this means.

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So it went from, “I need alone time”randomly on the 3rd, to okay come over on the 5th n 6th, gap to 10th n said “I don’t know when we will hangout again”, to “Come over the 11th”, to now “I’ll be busy this week”. Women, explain what the hell this means.

Anonymous 1w

This is one of two things: 1. A woman who is not sure what she wants 2. The infamous manipulative "hot and cold" strategy You need to decide if: 1. You are ok with dating someone who does not know what they want. Or 2. If you are ok with dating a manipulative woman

Anonymous 1w

I have a friend going through similar issues.

Anonymous 1w

Is this a partner or someone you're interested in?

Anonymous 1w

This may be based on my own experiences but it sounds like she might have someone else she's seeing so she's juggling plans between the two of you. just my opinion though

Anonymous 6d

unfortunately the best way to find out what that means is to just talk to your partner about it. could be a lot of things.

Anonymous

#1 1w

any reason behind it?

Anonymous

OP 1w

Idk. Just as curious as you lol.

Anonymous

#2 1w

I’m not dating her we supposed to just be fwb, I just don’t like inconsistency when you literally flip your whole world around in one day. Likely she definitely doesn’t know what she wants.

Anonymous

OP 6d

Bruh

Anonymous

#5 6d

I did, she said “I don’t know I just haven’t been feeling like myself lately”. So whatever the fuck that means

Anonymous

OP 6d

sounds like she’s just going through some shit. up to you whether it feels worthwhile to support her through it or if you’re not up for that right now.

Anonymous

#5 6d

I can understand that, but when you go from “I need alone time”, “I don’t know when we can hangout again” or “I’m gonna be busy this week”, to “Wanna come over?” the literal next day I’m calling bs. Out here using psych tactics to get her to wanna hangout like no bruh. I’m going ghost on her and lessen contact cause this too weird with extra signs. Going through something is understandable but I don’t sit around on “I don’t know why” responses when she lied in the past abt them.