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My bf has female friends which is fine bc they’ve been friends way before I came along, but tell me why he sends hearts to one of them? I found out(he doesn’t know ik) and it eats me up. He gets defensive when I talk about similar stuff and shuts it down
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Anonymous 5w

the hearts thing is not something that would ever even cross my mind as a problem. the 2 snap thing is horrific. he’s hiding SOMETHING from you, the question is what.

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Anonymous 5w

He also has another snap(he didn’t hide it from me) and the other day he was active on it but tells me he never uses it. Turns out he snapped this one girl and ofc I brought that up and he said “you think I’m cheating?” Ummm yeah kinda since you like to get all defensive. Anyways he denied ever snapping her. I’m not the jealous type I just don’t understand why he lies so much about this stuff

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Anonymous 5w

Yeah no he’s definitely hiding something that’s shady as shit (the 2 snaps)

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Anonymous 5w

oh hell nah

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Anonymous 5w

oh hell nahhhhh

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Anonymous 5w

confront him with how you feel, not accusing him. his reaction to your feelings will tell you a lot. if he gets defensive, you have reason to push further

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Anonymous 4w

If he gets defensive over you doing stuff that he does, he is DEFINITELY hiding something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

why tf would anyone NOT doing something weird have two snap accounts

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Tbf, he made the second snap years ago before i was around and he was never on it till recently. I’m just as confused

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

him making it years ago doesn’t make it any less sketchy. especially since he just started using it again. it’s all bad bbg. is this how you want your relationship to be? someone who you just don’t trust at all? you need to sit down with him and get everything out in the open - or look through his phone if you don’t trust him to tell you the truth - or just break up with him. this just isn’t sustainable and you’re putting yourself in pain for no good reason. you deserve better.

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