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Ask Women 21h
my girl has been going on and on about trying a drink from chickfla then when we were about to leave to get it she said she didn’t want it anymore bc it has 500 calories. how do i get her to stop counting calories and make her see her beauty?
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Anonymous 20h

no chance you can do that on your own, eating disorders need specialized therapy

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Anonymous 19h

remind her that you like her for who she is, even if the problem weighs on her mind. just be there through it all for her

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Anonymous 18h

If you try and push too hard she might double down. Maybe point out happiness it’s stealing from her in little ways? In the meantime order that drink for yourself. I guarantee she’ll want to sample it, and you can share

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Anonymous 5h

Uhhh I mean 500 calories is like a full meal. For a drink that is kinda crazy.

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Anonymous 14h

she needs therapy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

i try but her ex really did do a number on her. he would call her fat all the time and she’s literally not big. she has a tummy and big thighs but those thighs are all muscle. she can out squat me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

update i did do that, i said i was going to the store and came back with it and we shared it. i think she was suspicious tho bc she knows i don’t drink coffee and it was a coffee drink

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Good for her! she sounds like a badddie 💕

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

She can be as suspicious as she wants. You did it to make her happier

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

ngl my stomach is in shambles from that drink but she seemed to enjoy it so that’s all that matters

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

I’m sorry but I did laugh a little. It’s very sweet that you care so much for her though. I hope someday she overcomes the preoccupation with counting calories, cause that shit makes life hell

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

✊ u a real one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

aw man yes things like that can really stick with you, even things people said to me before still have impact. it’s good that u would love her at any size she is she sounds amazing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8h

she’s not even fat. she was underweight when her ex was calling her fat. now she has just a little bit of a stomach from happy weight but she honestly looks much healthier

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